Written by Laurie Robinson Haden | PSEE
School is not just about academics—it is also where children learn how to interact with others, resolve conflicts, and build friendships. Families can guide children in developing social skills that support confidence, empathy, and successful relationships.
- Talk About Feelings Using Everyday Moments
Name emotions you see in yourself, your child, or characters in books. This helps children recognize and talk about their own feelings. - Practice Greetings and Introductions
Role-play how to say hello, make eye contact, and introduce themselves. These small skills make social situations less intimidating. - Model Respectful Conversations at Home
Take turns speaking, listen without interrupting, and respond thoughtfully. Children mirror what they see in family discussions. - Encourage Inclusive Play
When possible, invite new classmates or neighbors to join games. Talk about what it means to make others feel welcome. - Teach Children to Recognize Healthy Friendships
Discuss the qualities of a good friend—kindness, honesty, and mutual support—and how to notice when a friendship is hurtful. - Coach Children Through Conflict, Not Around It
Instead of solving every problem for them, guide them to use phrases like “I didn’t like it when…” or “Can we figure this out together?” - Limit Unkind Talk About Others
Children learn how to speak about peers by listening to adults. Avoid gossip and model empathy, even when someone has made a mistake. - Encourage Group Activities
Sports, clubs, and youth programs build teamwork and expose children to diverse personalities and perspectives. - Support Your Child in Setting Boundaries
Explain that it is okay to say no, ask for space, or walk away from hurtful behavior. Confidence grows when children know they can protect themselves respectfully. - Stay in Touch With Teachers About Social Concerns
If your child is struggling with friendships or peer pressure, talk with teachers or counselors early. Working together creates a stronger support system.
Final Thought: Social skills do not appear overnight—they are learned through guidance, practice, and reflection. With family support, children gain the tools to build friendships that help them feel connected and confident at school.
